Lubricants are a standard item in drugstores and convenience stores, along with condoms. Lubricants come in a spectrum of colors and flavors. While this vast array of options appears very enticing, choosing a lube is better when used with proper knowledge about what each product does and how it can improve a sexual experience.
There are many different types of lubricants on the market offering different sensations and experiences. Some lubricants have additives that can cause unwanted reactions, and it only takes one bad experience for players to get discouraged and avoid lubricants altogether. But most people will find that lubricants are useful and can enhance intimate moments.
There may not be one perfect lubricant in the world for you, but knowing what is out there can help you make a good choice when shopping for a personal lubricant.
Even for the right type of play:
There are plenty of reasons why an individual or partners use lubricant. Many of the benefits revolve around sexual health.
The vagina becomes naturally moist when sexually excited. Sometimes women can experience insufficient secretion, and medical experts have found that dryness can happen even if the woman is excited about having sex. Just like erectile dysfunction, unintended dryness can have many common causes.
Dryness can cause pain during vaginal penetration and could cause tearing in the vaginal wall, which may result in fissures that can increase the vulnerability to STI’s and other infections. The same could happen during anal sex or when using sex toys.
For people who occasionally experience unintended dryness during sex; lubricants can be a life-saver. No matter what, always discuss lube options with a physician if the problem is medically related.
There are many incentives to using lube. Many couples will find that the right lube can not only help with making sex more comfortable but may add some satisfying sensations.
According to a study from 2013, most women feel positive about using lubricants and nine out of ten women experience more pleasurable and comfortable sex when using lube.
Use your imagination and go wild with your partner. Here are a few ideas to stimulate your creative juices:
People have used some interesting substances for lubrication. It can be fun to incorporate things like chocolate sauce or whip cream into foreplay, but experimenting with different substances as lube can have unintended and unhealthy results.
Using the right kind of lube makes a huge difference regarding pleasure and safety. It is also true that many substances not intended for use during sex can degrade condoms and increase the likelihood of STDs and unintended pregnancy.
Like sex toys, lubes are not created equal. Different types will suit different needs and tastes. Many couples can benefit from the friction-free glide all lubes offer and can enjoy blends that have special qualities, starting with the base.
These substances work as they provide a long-lasting and smooth experience. They are usually thicker and creamier. Oil-based lubes are fantastic for masturbation but do not go well with latex contraceptives.
The most common type of lubricants and the most versatile. Water-based lubricants work safely with almost all types of sexual activities. They don’t damage condoms, latex and sex toys made of silicone.
Water-based lubes often cost less than other types. They can be safely ingested in small amounts and can be easily washed off. They dry out after a long time, but you can just quickly add some more if you’re going for an all-nighter.
Silicone-based lubes are the perfect choices for sexual play involving water. If you like doing it in a shower or pool, a silicone-based lube will make aquatic sex even more enjoyable. It’s dermatologically safe and also skin-moisturizing. Just don’t use with silicone toys as the lube will damage its surface, unless stated otherwise.
The naturally slippery insides of the aloe vera plant make a great base for personal lubricants. Moisturizing and hypoallergenic, aloe-based lubricants are supportive of the body’s natural lubrication.
Hybrid lubricants utilize the power of two bases and have a lot to offer. Some water-based lubricants are enhanced by silicone or other natural ingredients to make them more versatile.
There are many things to consider when choosing the right lube. First is knowing what is body friendly for you and your partner. Lube is applied to sensitive locations, making sure there aren’t any harmful ingredients used in the making of the product is essential to finding the right lubricant.
Second is matching the action to the right lube.
Find lubes with organic, glycerin-free, paraben-free and natural ingredients. Check their labels to make sure. Some lube under this category include:
Male and female condoms are commonly used to prevent pregnancy and the spread of most STDs and are successful when used correctly. Condoms are made from a variety of materials, and some come pre-lubricated. However, some common ingredients lubricants can react with the condom material and cause it to break.
According to a recent publication by Cornell Health, oil-based lubricants have been found to degrade latex based contraception, while silicone and water based lubricants work with most types of condoms. Some good examples are:
Anal sex adventurers can go for something that’s highly lubricating since the anal part of the body does not produce the same amount of wetness as a vagina. Some good options are:
Couples who like to add water to passion, or visa versa, may find some lubricants will quickly wash away in a shower, jacuzzi, or swimming pool. However, some lubricants are designed to keep working even in water. On the next underwater ‘sexpedtion’ try this water-friendly lube:
You need a long-lasting, safe, and versatile lubricant for an intense, bed-shaking, long hours of sex. Try these:
Water-based lubricants are your friends. You can easily wash them off, and they won’t damage your precious silicone-made toy. Fleshlights and ‘guybrators’ work best with water-based lubricants. Plus water-based lubes are much safer, versatile, and will last longer. Check out:
Exploration and experimentation are welcome additions to the bedroom, and lubes provide a variety of flavors and feelings that can liven up lovemaking. There are many lubricants with added flavors and ingredients that are also safe to use. Flavored lubricants can enhance oral sex while stimulating lubes can apply a range of cool to warm sensations to erogenous areas. Some great options are:
Players can hit more than two birds with one lube. The right kind of lubricant can help increase the pleasure and make sex even more enjoyable.
While relying on your natural emollient is healthy too, lubricants have a lot to offer and can be a fun addition to intimate moments. Finding the right one can also be a fun quest for all couples or singles looking for slick, long lasting, tasty or stimulating sex. Now, who doesn’t love that?
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